Digital Violence Against Women: A Growing Crisis in Cross River, Nigeria
In a bold move to combat a disturbing trend, the Nigeria-based NGO, Side By Side for Gender Justice Movement (SBS), is sounding the alarm on the escalating issue of digital violence targeting women and girls. But here's where it gets controversial: while many focus on physical abuse, the insidious nature of online harassment, blackmail, and cyberstalking often goes unnoticed, yet it can lead to devastating real-world consequences, including physical harm and even death.
During a recent sensitization walk in Calabar, as part of the global 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence campaign (November 25 – December 10, 2025), participants marched under powerful slogans like “End Digital Harm Now” and “Digital Safe Space: #DemandRespectOnline.” This year’s event, promoted by Christian Aid, the United Nations, and SBS, is taking place simultaneously across six Nigerian states, highlighting the urgency of the issue.
And this is the part most people miss: digital violence isn’t just about strangers; it often involves manipulation through seemingly harmless phone calls or online interactions. Ven. Augustine Oqua, Co-chairman of SBS, emphasized, “People now use their phones to harass, lure, intimidate, and blackmail women and girls. Some of these cases have led to irreversible damage.” He urged caution, stating, “Not every call or message is safe. Many girls have tragically lost their lives after falling victim to digital manipulation.”
The rally, sponsored by Christian Aid and the United Nations, brought together over 30 participants from diverse religious backgrounds, including Christians and Muslims. Imam Lawal Kazeem, an Islamic scholar, voiced the Muslim community’s full support, stressing, “We must protect the girl-child, who is often the primary target. Religious leaders must continue to back awareness initiatives to educate communities about the dangers of violence.” Kazeem also condemned child marriage, advocating that girls should only marry when they are mature and educated, in line with legal schooling ages.
Participants like Odo Bassey and Ekpowan Ekpo shared their concerns. Bassey declared, “Online abuse of girls is alarming. We’re saying enough is enough,” while Ekpo added, “Digital abuse is rampant, affecting both men and women. It’s time to stop the violence and the shame.” Victor Inameti, a retired Permanent Secretary, broadened the conversation, noting, “While we often focus on violence against women, men also suffer. Disrespect and abuse have no gender. Love and respect should be the foundation of every home.”
Here’s a thought-provoking question: Is digital violence a gender-specific issue, or does it reflect a broader societal problem of online toxicity? Share your thoughts in the comments below. As the 16-day campaign continues across Calabar, the call for community education on physical, verbal, and digital abuse grows louder, urging everyone to play their part in creating safer spaces for all.
